i may ask all of you a silly question...but in future who knows!!!!!! will you???
Yes, i love forever!!!! :rocker
Yes, yes of course, I will love The Cure forever and ever. I couldn't turn my back on them, even if I tried.
I will! :smth020
I am a life long fan. They will always be with me.
There is no doubt I will love them forever...They're in my blood!
I practically grew up with them--how can I NOT love them forever.
It's too late for me, that make 22 years that I'm listening THE CURE !!!
I am possessed by THE CURE :smth077
yes of course :-D
till god do us apart !!
Yes, of course :D
I will love The Cure forever and ever!!! :rocker
sorry everyone but what the point of this kind of thread?
i not get.
thanks.
Quote from: slit-the-cats-like-cheese on September 24, 2007, 19:56:03
sorry everyone but what the point of this kind of thread?
i not get.
thanks.
Why does every thread on this site have to be scrutinized? Can't we just relax and have a good chat? Or does everything have to be vital and informative. Sometimes us Cure fans just need a good chat, it's not like alot of people know about The Cure where I live, so it's a good outing to go here, relax, and chat about ANYTHING Cure related...important or not!
Quote from: slit-the-cats-like-cheese on September 24, 2007, 19:56:03
sorry everyone but what the point of this kind of thread?
i not get.
thanks.
It's only that you can write if you want, that your fanship will last forever and you love the Cure till
the end of your life.
Is that what you wanted to know slit-the-cat-like-cheese, or am i wrong??? ??? :?:
Yes of corse I like cure you like cure we all like cure and it's obviously yes that everyone here like the cure yes?
Is no question of this: what i mean I always like to read this forum because is good informative forum about the cure
if i want to read chat i go to some chat forum. but topic like WelovetheCure and maybe soon what color is robert sock. What is new and what is to learn?
Yes You some people enjoy it chat but also some people like me not enjoy. I not judge it but i think I only post my opinion also.
because so many Cureforum I have seen this same problems of uninterest.
Yes every one can has an opinion, you have and I have one boths. I sometime wonder only people say they like Cure so so much but why they not have anything to talk about the Cure still, but only like more chat? it is my wondering.
Sorry if you aks me yes I can prefer a informative forum than chat.
only my opinion.
thanks.
That was really hard to understand.
Yes, i have to confess that sometimes are not so good threads on Forums, but if they didn't exist
it would be boring, i think.
I would also like to discuss something other than how i love this band.
We all know that we love the Cure, this is no question :D
So you can't please everybody this will never work i think.
Quote from: AlluivialL on September 24, 2007, 23:18:04
That was really hard to understand.
Ok let me aks another way:
if we love Cure so much and forever, why we not post a threads where to share opinion why love Cure why it is important why it is good and not only posting chat that not mean anything and not say anything to other fan who read it?
I think more interesting to read peopl tell why Cure is important, than only read I love Cure I love Cure!
Is many thread on the forum where can discuss this and have fun to share opinion.
What is wrong to discuss it?
Sorry my enlish.
thanks.
I didn't mean it slit-the-cats-like-cheese. And to be angry doesn't help on, okay :).
What i wanted to do is to help you and nothing more.
The other way round, you will always find on Forums threads you don't like, so it's your choice
to post a reply or not.
Yes, of course it's more interesting why the Cure is so important, than to discuss umpteenth why we love them. I hope you're not angry anymore, okay :) ;)
Quote from: slit-the-cats-like-cheese on September 24, 2007, 23:15:53
Yes of corse I like cure you like cure we all like cure and it's obviously yes that everyone here like the cure yes?
Is no question of this: what i mean I always like to read this forum because is good informative forum about the cure
if i want to read chat i go to some chat forum. but topic like WelovetheCure and maybe soon what color is robert sock. What is new and what is to learn?
I have to agree here with slit-the-cats-like-cheese. Curefans.com has been and it's (hopefully) one of the most informatives Cure sites in the whole planet.
Unfortunately the lack of Curenews, the US tour posponed and so on, have made that many of us start too many "off topics" in Curefans.com (actually too(!) many in the last days). Altought Curefans.com has not specific rules and freedom is what made this forum grown so fast, we encourage people to create more topics that can be helpful to the community, where people can actually learn something, as slit-the-cats-like-cheese stated.
Quote from: slit-the-cats-like-cheese on September 24, 2007, 23:29:05
Quote from: AlluivialL on September 24, 2007, 23:18:04
That was really hard to understand.
Ok let me aks another way:
if we love Cure so much and forever, why we not post a threads where to share opinion why love Cure why it is important why it is good and not only posting chat that not mean anything and not say anything to other fan who read it?
I think more interesting to read peopl tell why Cure is important, than only read I love Cure I love Cure!
Is many thread on the forum where can discuss this and have fun to share opinion.
What is wrong to discuss it?
Sorry my enlish.
thanks.
Oh I know what you meant, I just yeah..meant it was hard to understand english wise.
no I not angry. I only wondering much why people posting chat very much but not have real thing to say about Cure or why is like not want to discuss Cure anyway? I post very little but I read and learning lot. Of corse not all thread please you or please me. I say already I not judge it. But ask why not to discuss more interesting things if in agree that more interesting things exist in another threads? :)
thanks.
Quote from: slit-the-cats-like-cheese on September 24, 2007, 23:53:51
no I not angry. I only wondering much why people posting chat very much but not have real thing to say about Cure or why is like not want to discuss Cure anyway? I post very little but I read and learning lot. Of corse not all thread please you or please me. I say already I not judge it. But ask why not to discuss more interesting things if in agree that more interesting things exist in another threads?
thanks.
Yes I agree, to some extent.
Well, I've posted alot lately, in many different threads. So there's me...
Every once and a while it's good to have convo like this...especially because I'm an extreme social outcast and shunned by my community...
At least in this community, nobody can see me!
Plus, I only know one person in my life who is a Cure fan, and that's my mom.
It's cool if you don't like it, just don't criticize...go to a different board and enjoy! There's always someone to talk to here, it seems.
I'm not mad at you at all! I'm a very nice person! :smth001
I've been here for only a few months, but hey, I'm starting to get settled. Slowly but surely.
Quote from: dsanchez on September 24, 2007, 23:47:43
Curefans.com has been and it's (hopefully) one of the most informatives Cure sites in the whole planet.
Unfortunately the lack of Curenews, the US tour posponed and so on, have made that many of us start too many "off topics" in Curefans.com (actually too(!) many in the last days).
So what's wrong with lots of "off topic" threads? They are just for fun and it's a way to kill time whilst we wait for Cure news. And we all know how the Cure work so it may take quite some time for any news. ;)
I know I've only been here a short time, but I wouldn't call this site "one of the most informative Cure sites". It's basically the same as any other. Lots of posts on the Cure and way way way too many off topic posts.
Quote from: iwannashagsimon on September 25, 2007, 08:48:42
Quote from: dsanchez on September 24, 2007, 23:47:43
Curefans.com has been and it's (hopefully) one of the most informatives Cure sites in the whole planet.
Unfortunately the lack of Curenews, the US tour posponed and so on, have made that many of us start too many "off topics" in Curefans.com (actually too(!) many in the last days).
So what's wrong with lots of "off topic" threads? They are just for fun and it's a way to kill time whilst we wait for Cure news. And we all know how the Cure work so it may take quite some time for any news. ;)
I know I've only been here a short time, but I wouldn't call this site "one of the most informative Cure sites". It's basically the same as any other. Lots of posts on the Cure and way way way too many off topic posts.
definitely no offense iwannashagsimon, but maybe being here for a short time explains it: what if you don't see this site different as any other because you've joined here during a period that has been full off pretty nonsense chatter?
yes i'd dare to say this site used to be different than all these other chatty cure forums - to have a different, informative forum was actually one of the reasons why this forum was originally put up in the first place... there was and still is a good bunch of us here who really disliked places like mfc, official site, one other place which name i'm not going to mention(...) and wanted to create a different kind of place. so maybe not "one of the most informative sites" but i'd dare to say "one of the most informative
forums" (whereas if you ask me, most other forums are so noninformative that i don't even see any reason to hang around those, hardly to visit them).
yet it does look like the chatty nonsense (sorry to call it that...) has caught with us lately... and so it's maybe about time and reasonable to bring this topic up and into discussion. because the majority of topics in discussion here really used to be "real" cure topics, all these "other topics" really used to be in a big minority. now it's taken the turn the other way and i have to say i don't really like it - or let me say, i can't really see how that could be such a positive development.
CV wrote as an advice to slit-the-cats-like-cheese: "...then go to a different board and enjoy!" - but look at it this way: what if this used to be that different board?
whereas i don't and i can't stop anyone posting chat topics or any other topics, i have to agree it has been a bit disappointing to see the turn the forum has taken during past months/weeks. i say that as my personal opinion.
and yes i've contributed to these chat topic too sometimes recently, but decided against it very recently since it's actually driving me a bit too frustrated and as i personally do greatly dislike the mfc-ish lable/look that it gives us. like pointed out earlier in the thread, why make this forum one those chatty pointless "i love you robert!" forums when it doesn't have to be like them? to be perfecty honest, if anyone asks me there are enough forums like this already, i'm not afraid to say this. not every forum
has to be the same.
so yes not sure how i'd put this to avoid misunderstandings but i'd personally wish people would see more worth around them here - and god grant us some proper news and a tour soon!
Quote from: japanesebaby on September 25, 2007, 09:15:44
one other place which name i'm not going to mention(...)
Hope you're not talking about Beach Of Stone. :( That's actually my favorite Cure foum.
Quote from: iwannashagsimon on September 25, 2007, 09:18:26
Quote from: japanesebaby on September 25, 2007, 09:15:44
one other place which name i'm not going to mention(...)
Hope you're not talking about Beach Of Stone. :( That's actually my favorite Cure foum.
well i don't think it doesn't even matter what place i'm talking about. although actually i've never even visited that forum you mentioned. anyway, i wasn't saying "this or that board sucks so everyone should never go there!". people are free to join and hang around every forum they like and my opinion has nothing to do with it, of course.
all i wanted was to point out that we maybe shouldn't just straightaway take it in granted "every forum is the same, every forum
must have the same sort of mentality same sort of balance in the discussion, every forum
is supposed to be the same" - because that's maybe not the truth. maybe people put up new forums because they don't want everything to be the same - otherwise people who put this one up wouldn't needed to do it but they could have just gone over to mfc and have the time of their lives. yet they didn't.
all i'm saying that this board used to have a bit different mentality, we used to have let's say at least 85% of discussion in the "real" cure related threads. and since things have taken a turn lately, this has caused some justified alarm - and so i think it's very reasonable to bring this up and into discussion.
after i read all the post that posted by all of you...i'll know that all of you are die hard fan of the cure...congratulation...this is the purpose i create the topic....
so keep love the cure..even though they are retired or die :smth023
congrats to all of you...... :smth023 :smth023 :smth023
love cure forever and ever...and i hope in future my kids will love the cure like i do.... :rocker :rocker
Quote from: japanesebaby on September 25, 2007, 09:25:34
we used to have let's say at least 85% of discussion in the "real" cure related threads.
Perhaps all of the "real" Cure things have been discussed at the moment and folks are just running out of things to say?? I know I have. :?
Plus I think off topic threads are a good way to learn more about each other. It's obvious we are all Cure fans, but there is more to us than just that. :-D
Quote from: iwannashagsimon on September 25, 2007, 09:38:09
Quote from: japanesebaby on September 25, 2007, 09:25:34
we used to have let's say at least 85% of discussion in the "real" cure related threads.
Perhaps all of the "real" Cure things have been discussed at the moment and folks are just running out of things to say?? I know I have. :?
Plus I think off topic threads are a good way to learn more about each other. It's obvious we are all Cure fans, but there is more to us than just that. :-D
well, if
all really interesting cure things are thoroughly dicussed and over... i think the question would be then "why do we even keep this place running?" right?
ok come on, i mean the cure just
can't be somehow "fully discussed through" and over! if it were it would mean it's just a totally shit nonimportant band like backstreet boys or something.
yes i've nothing against people getting know each other. i was just talking about the blaance of things - the balance isn't ideal if people have nothing to say about the cure but only feel the need to chat. again, why would the forum be here then if there's nothing left to say about this band? sounds alarming to me. and another view on it could be: surely off-topic threads are a great way chat but there are also chat lines, myspace, mfc, things like that. so all i meant was that not everything out here on internet somehow
has to be a 24/7 chat line.
Quote from: japanesebaby on September 25, 2007, 09:43:44
well, if all really interesting cure things are thoroughly dicussed and over... i think the question would be then "why do we even keep this place running?" right?
ok come on, i mean the cure just can't be somehow "fully discussed through" and over! if it were it would mean it's just a totally shit nonimportant band like backstreet boys or something.
yes i've nothing against people getting know each other. i was just talking about the blaance of things - the balance isn't ideal if people have nothing to say about the cure but only feel the need to chat. again, why would the forum be here then if there's nothing left to say about this band? sounds alarming to me. and another view on it could be: surely off-topic threads are a great way chat but there are also chat lines, myspace, mfc, things like that. so all i meant was that not everything out here on internet somehow has to be a 24/7 chat line.
Sorry I said anything..... :(
i didn't mean to post something in a shutup-ish way. so no need to be sorry instantly.
yet yes i do admit that i am genuinely starting to think there's something to discuss and consider here.
as those of us who've been here for a longer time do know, this forum is known to have taken even somewhat radical turns in the past and things like that always caused some storms of course. yet i think it was always done in order to maintain a certain kind of direction of its own here, a certain kind of honesty i'd dare to say. instead of just going with the flow/doing what most other boards do - just because "that's what all other boards do". so in all, i was just challenging that way of thinking in general, nothing more. nothing personal was involved of course.
Quote from: iwannashagsimon on September 25, 2007, 09:18:26
Quote from: japanesebaby on September 25, 2007, 09:15:44
one other place which name i'm not going to mention(...)
Hope you're not talking about Beach Of Stone. :( That's actually my favorite Cure foum.
Not, Marika means some other forum :). About "Beach of Stone", never hear about :roll:
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 25, 2007, 00:50:17
It's cool if you don't like it, just don't criticize...go to a different board and enjoy! There's always someone to talk to here, it seems.
Sorry please to udnerstand it: I not want to go to another forum because other forum is bad and always they have this uninterest of postings too much! Nothing is to learn and find, most forum is complet boring place. very worse forum is official forum, also most else is bad. Personal I prefer to like a cureforums where people is serious and they have thing to say of music and not to only talk about themself only and not to only chat non-music things. This is where it's interest of things and is why to spend any time in it. To talking about themself and talking about personal things, for it can people send pm too, why not?
I hope Curefan stay this a good forum with interest topics about Cure to learn and read for a fan!
Is my hope and is reason I post to it.
thanks.
I cant be bothered reading two pages, of this, either, at the moment..
I just noticed Cats and wanted to say hello, Sometimes threds like this one could be a poll instead, But then again obviously we all do love the Cure, or we wouldnt be here, no big debate needed,.
Anyway dont go else where, Iam happy See you here :smth006 , and yes know you briefly from another place, but what i appreciate is how you are honest and kind.
EDIT* * It seems that Cats thought (if you read her post above) that someone was telling her to go to a different 'Forum' all together- thats what i think she may have thought- and that is what i read, when i replied, because i dont like that someone will feel unwanted, or be pushed away- I hope she didnt feel like that. :cry:
ANOTHER EDIT * * reason iam saying this, is because i can be sensitive when i comes to the internet, And sometimes things can be taken to heart- whether you want to or not. And Iam sure most sensitive natured people would understand that.
Nitee Nite everyone ~ hope to see you all next time
Is it so wrong to talk about non-cure things in the off-topic thread?
Okay, there maybe some threads they're not so good.
What should we talk about in the off-topic thread? Not about so called personal things like e.g.
what film someone like, which books someone read etc. ?
I think it's good to know the other members of a forum a little bit.
To the hold the balance between not so good threads and good threads are maybe sometimes not easy.
For me the most important thing is to talk about The Cure with other Fans.
I mean what they think of the music, lyrics, how they find the concert etc.
I've visited the official message board, i don't know how many times, maybe three times
and i have to say i don't like it, because the atmosphere is not my cup of tea.
I think most posts are how great Robert is and how they love him and maybe if you criticise it, than you are a bad person. Or am i wrong???
I like forums where no-one gets offened or things like that. Where your opinion will be respected and
you can discuss things realistic.
And i think on this forum it is the case, and that's why i like this forum :)
In the end i hope it comes out right what i wanted to say :)
Quote from: ROGUE on September 25, 2007, 20:24:22
EDIT* * It seems that Cats thought (if you read her post above) that someone was telling her to go to a different 'Forum' all together- thats what i think she may have thought- and that is what i read, when i replied, because i dont like that someone will feel unwanted, or be pushed away- I hope she didnt feel like that. :cry:
Yes i feel this a contradict because I just have saying that I like this forum because it be different than other (chat) Cureforum, and then some person tell me "hey go to find some other forum" = This is a contradict because I already say this all other forum is not interest at all! Very little interest forum about the Cure in web today. This is few.
what I try saying: I hope this forum also not become only another one of chat forum, like most other cure forum is!
like silversand say, let hope it not to start become one I love Cure I love Robert forum too!
Sorry my english.
thanks.
(Rogue thanks but sorry maybe confuse me with another person. I am definite not girl jejeje. ;))
But they didnt say go find another 'forum' - They said go to another "'board '' Within HERE- like another thred section -"music section"- if you wanna talk music, etc - within here, Curefans. :smth023
They didnt say go to another forum at all . Thats what i have BEEN trying to say,!! all along. . thats all. :D -(also via my personal message to you)
.....and yes I must be the one thats mixed up :lol: with eeerm someone else... ok ~giggles ~
Enjoy either way good to see you still here.
This is so confusing trying to read it back today - So i am not going to, i read it last night, and understand how it went. - but definately got more confusing than necessary- what the ?
So a board is different from a forum. There are many boards within this forum, so if you dont like this thred, read the music section of this site- A suggestion similar to the one made last night.
ENJOY EVERYONE, and yes I do love The Cure and the music.
I don't see anything wrong with stupid threads, but to call them "STUPID" is a bit insulting to the thread starter. Maybe re-word that?
I know, I sometimes start threads unrelated to The Cure, but it's also a good way to share things in common...and trust me, nobody in my real life listens or has discussions like they do here...it's very good to have these kinds of discussions for our mental health!
I think had it not been for message boards or the internet, I would have already slit my wrists and killed myself. No, I am not kidding.
I will not be returning to this thread (yes I will, but only if I get mentioned again and need to defend myself) so, bye.
who said stupid ? doesnt matter anyway, forget i asked, just couldnt find that word - maybe it been changed already ??
And i like chit-chat, i spend alot of time on this side of the site, just small talk, etc.
I like it too when people go off topic and come up with something more interesting, Its the way you look at things i suppose, . . . . Witnessing the birth of a new topic- I love it,
and think that idiot with the Robert doll is so stupid- But funny how it took over another thred. Birth of ugly smelly foot doll thred. :lol:
Hope you all good when you read this.
Anyway back to looking at The Cure live on youtube. :smth084 and sushi night- yumski
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 26, 2007, 21:52:56
I don't see anything wrong with stupid threads, but to call them "STUPID" is a bit insulting to the thread starter. Maybe re-word that?
I will not be returning to this thread (yes I will, but only if I get mentioned again and need to defend myself) so, bye.
Sorry guy I never say anyone stupid too. I not use this words of somebody here. i never have call a person stupid here.
In my post I only wondering why some person want to tell me to go to other board. but Maybe i misunderstanding this wording (like ROGUE say). but Sorry my enlish is not the best!!
Very sorry I not full understand why some times people always take all so personal and say like "I need defend myself" when it is only some conversation about something on the forum and especial when the conversation matter is important to discussing it! Why someone need to defend himselves for som thing here? Becaus we talk about the things here on boards and not somebody personality! why make big issue of any personality here? maybe people want some attention this way. But I think in this thread I only want start talk about this thing and not of persons.
My very apologizes but I not understand why people who could be insulted in it which was written.
thanks.
No dont appologise, maybe someone else said that word, but i knew you didnt. I think alot of us can be sensitive and take things the wrong way, -I know i do sometimes. There is no right or wrong, Just good people who share something incommon.
I think there has been a misunderstanding, and its hard sometimes, when we can not talk face to face.
Noone means any harm - just a misunderstanding, No appologise for anyone- I think - Just enjoy,
Find a topic you are interested in, here and have fun.
Your English is good, but there are also other language sections within here, and if you want to ask moderators, send them a message, they are very helpful.
So everyone lets not worry about it, There is bigger things and better things to worry about, *** like finding a bigger picture of Robert in leather pants.
:D