What made you feel sad today?

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Cure Freak

Today is my daughter's birthday.
This month is another hell for me. I probably won't be on here that much, due to my emotions.

ROGUE

Cure Freak ~ please take care, will miss you but understand the need for peace and quiet. i cant imagine the pain.
                  Thinking of you, sending you love.   :smth055 and hugs.


I feel the need for hugs aswell, like Carnage Visor said in post, just feel sad for no real reason.

Think i will take some time off line too.  Yuk lonely this time of year. :roll:



edit ~ BIG Hugs for you Scatcat, Thank you also  :smth058  and one for C.Visor  :smth058   and everyone also  :smth054
       
Sending Cyber hugs to LuvUrobert too  :smth058  (but sending luv in msg)   :smth023

scatcat

Quote from: Carnage Visor on December 05, 2007, 02:31:48
I could use a hug right about now...I can't honestly say why, because I don't even know, but I just feel sad...you know?


~cyber hugs ~   :smth008  CV.. me need too.. can u please return them??  ;)

Quote from: Cure Freak on December 06, 2007, 11:57:34
Today is my daughter's birthday.
This month is another hell for me. I probably won't be on here that much, due to my emotions.


~cyber hugs ~  :smth008 For u CureFreak. Mine is in January.. just remember.. hell can freeze over, then you can safely walk to the other side..  :smth059


Quote from: ROGUE on December 06, 2007, 13:10:33

Think i will take some time off line too.  Yuk lonely this time of year. :roll:

~cyber hugs too ROGUE  :smth008.. it is very lonely xmas for some of us.. yuk is the word.. I have no xmas decorations, no xmas tree, and won't be seeing anyone xmas day.
BUT I will have peace and quiet, try to relax and just BREATHE..  :smth002

Seventeen seconds
A measure of life

Carnage Visor

You all deserve hugs...

Unfortunately I can't find a good gif, so you'll have to imagine one...

It's the time of the season where all that matters, otherwise it's a very depressing time for most people...

melly

Quote from: Cure Freak on December 06, 2007, 11:57:34
Today is my daughter's birthday.
This month is another hell for me. I probably won't be on here that much, due to my emotions.


my heart goes out to you.... :smth056


and to everyone else who is so sad, so lonely...... keep reaching out to each other, there will always be someone here.... :smth024
" Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about learning to dance in the rain "...

Lady

Quote from: ROGUE on December 06, 2007, 13:10:33
I feel the need for hugs aswell, like Carnage Visor said in post, just feel sad for no real reason.
I understand you perfectly...I often feel like you and when there's no reason it's a sort of "prison" for me... :(
Love u, TVB!!!  :smth054 (In italy we use TVB to say i love u to our friends :-D)

@Cure Freak: I know it's difficult to find words in situations like this...every words seem useless, but I just can say I'm by your side, TVB! :smth056 :smth055

......and hugs to everybody who feel sad and "lost".... :smth056 :smth049
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Cure Freak

Thank you so much eveyone. Love to you all. :smth049

And lots of love and hugs to ones who had a loss in their lives.

LuvURobert

Quote from: Cure Freak on December 06, 2007, 11:57:34
Today is my daughter's birthday.
This month is another hell for me. I probably won't be on here that much, due to my emotions.


Hi, Cure Freak.  Hope you are hanging in there.  I can't even imaging your pain but hope you are able to cope.  Big hugs to you and anyone else feeling sad around the holidays!  I haven't been online much either lately.  Hope to see you soon, CF!! 
"And I shiver and shake
When I think of how you make me hate"

Carnage Visor

Why is it that we get depressed around the holidays? It happens to me all the time.

I guess with the murky weather and cold, having to get out of bed makes us all crankier. Everyone at highschool seems to be in a pissy mood lately. I've begun to have bad dreams about an old friend tormenting me...

See, this friend in my dream, he and I used to hang out alot in 5th and 6th grade. He was my best friend. A few years ago, he completely ditched me when I began showing signs of emotional problems...I had no idea why he would, we were best friends. Now I am a sophomore in high school, going to a school for depressed/suicidal teenagers, I still can't stop thinking about how heartbreaking it was.

I've begun having bad dreams involving this friend, as if he is a symbol of all that can go wrong in a friendship...

Last night, I had a dream that he and I met up and became friends again (start your dream analysis here!!!  ;)), and I believe we were just hanging out and doing what good mates do, right? And he could drive (he probably can now, we're both 15)!

Anyway, he began to start bashing me as we drove around, calling me all kinds of horrible names for no reason, and I began to feel frightened by his actions. It turns out that he was only pretending to be my friend to sabatoge me, and was going to humiliate me or kill me. He ended up ditching me on the side of the road in the desert and driving off. :shock:


It was frighteningly real, and I wasn't sure it was a dream until I heard my alarm start beeping.

It happens alot when I am having friend troubles, like right now my good friend is letting some girl get in the way of our friendship, and that's just pissing me off. He doesn't even know her, she's a friend of a classmate of ours, and they chat online all day. Not only am I jealous he has a girlfriend, I'm jealous of all the attention she's getting.

I hope those of you who read that can help me out or give some input on the subject? It's really been bothering me lately.

Cure Freak

Quote from: LuvURobert on December 12, 2007, 08:53:53
Quote from: Cure Freak on December 06, 2007, 11:57:34
Today is my daughter's birthday.
This month is another hell for me. I probably won't be on here that much, due to my emotions.


Hi, Cure Freak.  Hope you are hanging in there.  I can't even imaging your pain but hope you are able to cope.  Big hugs to you and anyone else feeling sad around the holidays!  I haven't been online much either lately.  Hope to see you soon, CF!! 

Thank you hon. Big hugs to you also.

sues777

I just found out a friend of mine from work was bashed while out in a bar late last week.  Apparently there was no reason for the attack - some moron just decided to king hit him.

Luckily my friend's injuries weren't too bad - a horrendously bad black eye and hairline fracture to the cheekbone - and he's back at work now, but he had to spend two days in hospital and may require surgery for his fractured cheekbone.

I just don't understand why some morons decide to just turn on others for no reason?  The absolute stupidity of it - I just don't get it  :(
The further we go, and older we grow, the more we know the less we show

lacrima mosa

i am  teacher and today one of my kiddies died in a car accident!! i never experienced such a loss and i dont know who to feel right now...  :(
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scatcat

Quote from: lacrima mosa on January 04, 2008, 20:28:48
i am  teacher and today one of my kiddies died in a car accident!! i never experienced such a loss and i dont know who to feel right now...  :(


ooohh f###ck... I am so sorry.. maybe there is some councilling available?  Shock is up first, then , talk about it.. Emotions come, but the more you talk, to someone who is either qualified to help you, or family, or community workers, (do it as soon as you can.), the more relieved of the trauma!
It is difficult, but eases, I have lost a child, It takes time, hug your loved ones, and express your feelings.
I wish I could help you .  :(

sending an angel to help:  :smth059
Seventeen seconds
A measure of life

lacrima mosa

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10.10.2022 Stockholm
12.10.2022 Oslo
13.10.2022 Göteborg
14.10.2022 Kopenhagen
16.10.2022 Hamburg
17.10.2022 Leipzig
18.10.2022 Berlin
18.11.2022 Strassburg
19.11.2022 Basel

Carnage Visor

That's completely awful...terribly sad.  :cry:

I almost lost a student in a car accident, he nearly died. Didn't know him much, but visited him in the hospital to show my condolences, it was very upsetting.

Poor kiddies, if only people payed more attention where they were going...it sickens me to watch a man hobble out of a bar on New Years and climb into a car without an escort...people can be so clumsy sometimes.

I hope you feel better. You have my sympathy.  :(