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Started by japanesebaby, May 21, 2009, 08:33:57
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Quote from: fiction on May 20, 2009, 15:53:43Quote from: japanesebaby on May 20, 2009, 13:54:41well i think the truth is "that no-one ever knows or loves another." it's not so scary when you already know that to be true anyway. Well spoken. I like to think of me as a true romantic person that sometimes maybe walks with dreams never ment to come true. But I know that love is out there somewhere. Just gotta find it.
Quote from: japanesebaby on May 20, 2009, 13:54:41well i think the truth is "that no-one ever knows or loves another." it's not so scary when you already know that to be true anyway.
Quote from: japanesebaby on May 21, 2009, 08:33:57actually i meant that quite literally, that noone ever really loves another, really. i'm not a "anti-romantic" person myself either, but i still don't believe there's such a thing as "the right one" or "one true love" out there. i don't think it's true. there are simply more or less good matches. mostly less. mostly a lot less. sometimes we meet a bit better match and we might start thinking "this is it". but is it really that or is it just us in love with ourselves and our feeling of being in love? loving that feeling makes us think we're in love with someone else. it's about illusions. and our society keeps those illusions up, by romanticizing everything. we're being bombarded by ideas of one true love all the time. go back in time 100 years and it's not there. go back in time 200 years, 300 years and so on. in a way the idea of one true love is a rather modern-day invention. and as such it's perhaps just one more thing in the long serious of things that we somehow must achieve in this world, just like good job, money, wealth, status, youth, physical beauty, fitness etc. it's sad that it's become like that, we've become slaves to that belief, just like we've become slaves to money and entertainment.
Quote from: dsanchez on May 21, 2009, 12:56:04I mostly agree with baby's view. Most of the times you find a person who "match well with you". And then this person can become your partner, sometimes life partner.
Quote from: Lady on May 21, 2009, 16:48:16I think you're really in love when you are ready to give up on something important just beacuse you wanna make your lover happy....
Quote from: Trust... on May 21, 2009, 21:24:57Quote from: Lady on May 21, 2009, 16:48:16I think you're really in love when you are ready to give up on something important just beacuse you wanna make your lover happy....Yes, that's true ... in the beginning, but I think true love is that you support your partner at every moment in the relationship. I thought for a long time the same, as long my lover is happy, so do I. But after 12 years of relationship I think that it is very important to do what you really want, even if your partner isn't agree in the beginning, if he/she really loves you, he or she won't ask you to give up things where you belief or loves in. He / she can understand. And then I belief true love excist
Quote from: dsanchez on May 22, 2009, 14:03:25Interesting speech about "romantic love"
Quote from: Hero on May 24, 2009, 07:21:28You know, only 3% of the worlds mammals 'mate for life' (monogamous pairing) and humans arent one of them. But that might be off topic...(I'm wrighting a biology assignment right now :( )
Quote from: derektrainwreck on June 12, 2009, 19:13:49love is death in my eyes.