I wake up every morning and play loud PUSH. This songs brings me energies and it's a great way to start a day ;). Another could be DOING THE UNSTUCK. But probably I will move in the following weeks with my girlfriend, which just like a few Cure songs, but I dont know how she would take this about me listening the greatest band everytime, in every corner, and very loud.
How do you guys deal with this?..I am curious ;)
David.
Although my wife used to be a big fan, the enthusiasm really waned after Wish...
She still enjoys some of the pop curestuff, but hasn't ebjoyed the more guitar style. The truth is, we rarely play it at home anymore, and frankly, I don't find it healthy for my two young children to listen to the negativity - If they want to find comfort later on when they can understand the humour and romanticism, that'll be fine...
So it doesn't play at home, but almost daily in my car stereo - loud - on my way to work. I also often have it on headphones in my little office at home when I'm working - the only way to get a whole show in...
Time has changed a lot of things, but we compromise alot
My girlffriend is not a fan of The Cure, she didn't know them before to meet me, i don't force her to love the band as much as i do but she loves talking about music... and that's great. I have already shown her the trilogy concert, she likes the "calm" songs (especially Disintegration) but i don't expect from her to fall in love with songs like 100 years, The kiss, The figurehead... .
I remember last year she burnt a record for herself and one of the songs was "this is a lie" so that's a good point (of course i would have prefered she put "End" or "The kiss" :wink: ).
And i'm sure, the next time The Cure will come in France, she will join me and my friends because she is curious to see the band that all of us love...
So that's cool... :D :D :D :D :D
I think my girlfiend was very impressed by my music and the cure. She liked the kind of music and that i didn't hear all that average stuff.
So I gave her some tapes and discs and she liked it, too. So we moved together to the Concert in Hamburg 2002 and thats my lovliest memory...because we are not together anymore. She left me last year...a tragedy. Her favourite song was "trust" and allways when I hear this song I have to think of her and it makes me sad. Well, my baby left but the cure stayed. :cry:
The Cure always stays...
I've begun listening to the Cure thanks to my boyfriend. He is a great fan of the band and "infected" me with this music many years ago.
Our relationship has ended but the Cure is still very important in my life.
Fortunately (or unfortunately) almost every song brings me many beautiful memories. Sometimes we were lying several hours and without any word listening to the albums, concerts, etcetera. It was wonderful.
Now, I can't imagine my life with a person who doesn't like Cure... but it's a very difficult condition :wink:
:) My husband use to be a fan of The Cure when he was younger, but he's kind of changed his taste in music over the years and so now he is I'm sad to say no longer a fan. I like my music and he likes his, we just learn to deal with it! LOL!!! He does say that I'm obsessed though, and he says that he thinks I love The Cure more than him sometimes! HaHa!!! It's a tie for first I say!!! LOL!!! :D
My Gf likes Plainsong and TEOTW but she says most of the time Bob's "Singing" grates on her.....but then again she listens to James Blunt so no matter how much I love her we'll never agree on music!
I often use Disentergration or Bloodflowers as mood music for the evening when she comes round and light some candles..............it helps things get very romantic and soppy!
Luke x :P
my wife doesn"t like a lot of Cure's song...she prefers U2 simple minds and sting... so we had to manage what we listen and when...but i have my room and i can play/listen my music loud !!!!
We're lucky because me and my boyfriend (disintegration) are both fans of the cure!! :-D
I think it's an amazing thing to share a musical passion with your partner: we talk very much about them, listen to their music together,collect bootlegs,vinyls,images... :smth001
Quote from: Lady on March 30, 2007, 15:24:56
We're lucky because me and my boyfriend (disintegration) are both fans of the cure!! :-D
I think it's an amazing thing to share a musical passion with your partner: we talk very much about them, listen to their music together,collect bootlegs,vinyls,images... :smth001
:smth060 :smth058 :rocker
My girlfriend has never had an issue with me playing the Cure, which I do often - even when I'm blasting the Trilogy DVD. I am fortunate enough to have a girlfriend who truly enjoys music, though, and likes a lot of Cure songs. We are constantly talking about music (or at least I am), especially considering I write/record/play music.
You shouldn't have any worries about moving in with her - if she's supportive and cares for you, she won't make you give up your favorite band.
My GF :smth060 and i doesnt share the same interest when it comes to Music. But she always feel that it is ok for me to be such hardcore fan of The Cure. I dont expect her to be such curefans though..
But..she was really exited when i asked her to listen to Love Song..Plus i did said that the song was a gift from Robert to her wife during their weding..She was suprised! :-D
Maybe i can slowly bring her into Cure music..It just a matter of time..Hope so!!
Luckily enough, both my fiance and I love The Cure. So that's not a problem. :-D Music is a big part of my life and I don't think I'd be very interested in someone in the first place if we don't share similar tastes.
:( *sniff* if I had a girlfriend, I hope she'd like The Cure like I do... :cry:
If she wouldn't, it only means she's not the right one for you :-D
Quote from: Aarna on June 29, 2007, 13:23:49
If she wouldn't, it only means she's not the right one for you :-D
That's what I was thinking as well... 8)
I'd hope that any boyfriend of mine would appreciate The Cure. ;)
my husband (aka snakepit)likes The Cure too :rocker
Quote from: Sussex on May 03, 2007, 16:35:10
My GF :smth060 and i doesnt share the same interest when it comes to Music. But she always feel that it is ok for me to be such hardcore fan of The Cure. I dont expect her to be such curefans though..
But..she was really exited when i asked her to listen to Love Song..Plus i did said that the song was a gift from Robert to her wife during their weding..She was suprised! :-D
Maybe i can slowly bring her into Cure music..It just a matter of time..Hope so!!
not a die hard fan lah ni........
My Oz BF loves The Cure. he first saw them at Bangalow bowling Club,
Northern New South Wales,.in 1981.
But, even though he's been with them,more than me. I know more about them , than he does. lol
Here i am again, finding myself in an awkward situation...now i have to express how depressed i am...
Well, i've been thinking. and i think that women dont like men who like the cure. (Hey, I'm going to start capitalising again...kay?)
I mean, I'm one of two people in my school who likes The Cure. The other person is my school therapist. So he and I have long discussions about The Cure, Siouxsie, Bauhaus, and the likes. So far I haven't met any girls who like them as much as I do...and I think that my strange, almost "gay" obsession with the band members is off-putting to many girls. I think they think I'm gay. And I wouldn't blame them, how much I talk about Robert...
I need some girl who's equally as psychotic and maniacal about the Cure as I am...then we could screw while listening to PORNOGRAPHY.
I'm sorry...songs about death and sadness turn me on. Am I getting a little too awkward? Well, it's in my nature... :lol:
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 17, 2007, 00:42:31
Well, i've been thinking. and i think that women dont like men who like the cure. (Hey, I'm going to start capitalising again...kay?)
hey dude....you are totally wrong...i like men who like the cure okay.... :smth023 :rocker
Well then you're awesome!!! :-D Other than you, the people I've met who were girls have laughed and said things like, "Isn't that that gay guy Boy George?" and laughed...
I need some Cure-loving girls where I live! 8)
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 17, 2007, 04:21:32
Well then you're awesome!!! :-D Other than you, the people I've met who were girls have laughed and said things like, "Isn't that that gay guy Boy George?" and laughed...
I need some Cure-loving girls where I live! 8)
dude... i hate girl like that...they must be like paris hilton...whatever they said i just ignore....i still like the cure....at this moment the cure is part of my life.... :smth023
i have a same problem like you...in my country...not lots of people know about the cure...
when i said do you know about the cure..and they said what is cure???? ....stupid....some of man in my country, don't know about the cure even the name they never heard about it...poor them hahahaha :-D :-D
we are in a same situation,,,,, i really thank you to my friend 'husna'....she taught me about the cure....i love her so much...thanks husna....
I LOVE MEN WHO LOVE THE CURE!
...Not that they'd like me.
:(
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 17, 2007, 00:42:31
Here i am again, finding myself in an awkward situation...now i have to express how depressed i am...
Well, i've been thinking. and i think that women dont like men who like the cure. (Hey, I'm going to start capitalising again...kay?)
I mean, I'm one of two people in my school who likes The Cure. The other person is my school therapist. So he and I have long discussions about The Cure, Siouxsie, Bauhaus, and the likes. So far I haven't met any girls who like them as much as I do...and I think that my strange, almost "gay" obsession with the band members is off-putting to many girls. I think they think I'm gay. And I wouldn't blame them, how much I talk about Robert...
I need some girl who's equally as psychotic and maniacal about the Cure as I am...then we could screw while listening to PORNOGRAPHY.
I'm sorry...songs about death and sadness turn me on. Am I getting a little too awkward? Well, it's in my nature... :lol:
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Sounds great to me :lol:
But if i describe too much about that i will also get awkward and blush...
Last boyfriend i had, never heard much of "The Cure", i was spending alot of time at his house, so eventually I took all my LP's over,
of the Cure- naturally,
and played them non stop, or couple hours a day, loud.
He ended up loving them aswell, and didnt know how good they are, He'd only heard the radio stuff before hand, so he really loved
hearing all the best LP's, like Pornography, Discintergration, Head 'Door, Imaginary boys, 17 sec's, etc, etc
But it was a 'big thing'- for me to take my LP's to anyone house- thats when i guess we both knew it would be a long relationship.
But we never went to bed listening to some nice slow, deep music. :cry:
:shock: Always next relationship around I suppose, thats one of my fantasies too ~ giggles ~ but more so hug's, and long kissing,
and romance, rather than just a screw. :smth023
Ah, of course. Romance sounds good. Anything's better than being alone like I am now.
Me too, where is prince charming when you need him,
Everywhere when you dont want him,..... bit like the police really, never around when
you need them. :roll:
Would just be so nice to have a perfect romantic evening, and be totally comfortable
and not to have any worries, just laughs and cuddles, and maybe a nice screw hehehehe
Quote from: Siouxsie_ on September 17, 2007, 11:01:09
I LOVE MEN WHO LOVE THE CURE!
...Not that they'd like me.
:(
yeah is true babe siouxsie....we are same..... :( :( :cry: :cry:
It's good to know us Curefans have somethings in common. It's comforting to know we all share the same pain...somehow.
Is it just me or does The Cure seem to have an appeal to people with depression? Because they are my favorite band, and judging by my awesomely rad quote, "I am extremely depressed!"
Maybe I just read into things....
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 17, 2007, 00:42:31
I need some girl who's equally as psychotic and maniacal about the Cure as I am...
This is not always the case. For instance, my girlfriend HATES Robert. She says he's having an orgasm everytime he sings :). Still, we get along very good.
If you really want a girl who's a curefan, maybe you should start in this forum. I mean, there are really some nice ladies here who are also single. Only maybe most of them are too far from you :roll:
That was more of a joke than an actual aspiration...I can dream though, right? :smth020
My mom loves The Cure (always did) and my dad used to make fun of her like crazy for it.
Yeah, they're divorced now. It didn't work out. :P
He made her wipe out her Cure collection before I was born...which is too bad because she told me she was a big 80s NEW WAVE fan, sort of a goth at one point...
Well, if the girl liked The Cure that would be a bonus, but it's definately not the main thing I look for...I just always envision a perfect girl as one who can enjoy the things I enjoy...we can enjoy them together. I'm not all about sex or any of that...I just like the thought of sharing that one common factor as something special...sharing time together doing what you love!
Quote from: dsanchez on September 18, 2007, 23:09:30
She says he's having an orgasm everytime he sings
Well if that were true, I'm glad I'm not sitting front row during any of their concerts. GROSS!
Quote from: crowbi_wan on September 20, 2007, 23:51:27
Quote from: dsanchez on September 18, 2007, 23:09:30
She says he's having an orgasm everytime he sings
Well if that were true, I'm glad I'm not sitting front row during any of their concerts. GROSS!
:-D
It just happens to be one the most amazingly creative and melodic orgasm ever recorded on tape...
She obviously hasn't heard Morrissey, he sounds like he's eating a submarine sandwitch...
Quote from: crowbi_wan on September 20, 2007, 23:51:27
Quote from: dsanchez on September 18, 2007, 23:09:30
She says he's having an orgasm everytime he sings
Well if that were true, I'm glad I'm not sitting front row during any of their concerts. GROSS!
:smth043
OOh...somebody change the subject before I become scarred for life!
I recently got a girlfriend here were I live lol you won't believe!
she is english and she don't know THE CURE!! WTF .man :shock:
i prefer the cure cos robert's music will always stay and a GF won't
:D :D
Yes, i will say "things" may come and go, but best friends are forever ~ and The Cure has been my true best friend for 2 thirds of my life, and always will be :smth055
Carnage V ~ wow imagine if your Mum kept that collection hidden some-where, ohhh Treasure !!!!! I guess you've probably asked her about it a hundred times, i would, forever be asking "are
you sure you threw them out...? Are you sure ??? " and on and on, BUGA.
Yeah...it's too bad...There's a baby video of me when she got a cassette of The Cult for Christmas...but back then the only music I liked was Tom Chapin and showtunes!
It sucks when you find out all the cool things your parents had when you were too young to care, usually it's stuff you'd die to own nowadays!!!
Quote from: crowbi_wan on September 20, 2007, 23:51:27
Quote from: dsanchez on September 18, 2007, 23:09:30
She says he's having an orgasm everytime he sings
Well if that were true, I'm glad I'm not sitting front row during any of their concerts. GROSS!
I would be front row, center!!
Hmmm, I think listening to The Cure kind of makes you socially awkward, I know it's made me socially awkward lol, I haven't left the house in 2 1/2 weeks, listening to The Cure is most of what I do, other than schoolwork (home schooled), and read..and draw, but I listen to The Cure none stop. I have yet to find any friends, I don't think The Cure is why I don't have friends, I have a social phobia. That's why, but much of their music is very depressing, and other's just make you dance. Which is great, for me.
The Cure is just such a massive part of my life. I also think it gives you more insightful thoughts.
My first boyfriend from the 80's took up my obsession with the cure, but his interest waned when we parted,, since then, well the cure has been my boyfriend, my ex-husband, when Iwe were married, was more of a Dean Martin fan... but he did get me 10 cure albums from a guy at his work.. he still knows they come ahead of anything.. probably for the rest of my life... If i do meet someone, they would have to like the Cure or take the highway!!! so.... anyone single out there??? :smth050
:smth020
Quote from: scatcat on October 04, 2007, 11:56:38
anyone single out there??? :smth050
:smth020
Me, and I have a feeling I'll be that way for a LOOOOOOOOONG TIME as long as I look like I do. Sad but true, I'm no handsome fellow, I look like an old beggar lady (which is strange, since I am neither old nor a lady, nor do I beg....)
I'm single, possibly because only people on the internet seem to find me attractive! :eek:
Quote from: Carnage Visor on October 06, 2007, 04:28:28
Quote from: scatcat on October 04, 2007, 11:56:38
anyone single out there??? :smth050
:smth020
Me, and I have a feeling I'll be that way for a LOOOOOOOOONG TIME as long as I look like I do. Sad but true, I'm no handsome fellow, I look like an old beggar lady (which is strange, since I am neither old nor a lady, nor do I beg....)
ohh baby it can't be that bad.. You are young, sensitive, caring... deprssed but aren't we all?? Remember this: suffering turns out to be the BEST times of your life.. single is a time for getting to know urself without senselessly giving ur power 2someone else..
Quote from: Siouxsie_ on October 06, 2007, 08:23:50
I'm single, possibly because only people on the internet seem to find me attractive! :eek:
@Siouxsie.. ur r beautiful2
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 17, 2007, 00:42:31
Here i am again, finding myself in an awkward situation...now i have to express how depressed i am...
Well, i've been thinking. and i think that women dont like men who like the cure. (Hey, I'm going to start capitalising again...kay?)
I mean, I'm one of two people in my school who likes The Cure. The other person is my school therapist. So he and I have long discussions about The Cure, Siouxsie, Bauhaus, and the likes. So far I haven't met any girls who like them as much as I do...and I think that my strange, almost "gay" obsession with the band members is off-putting to many girls. I think they think I'm gay. And I wouldn't blame them, how much I talk about Robert...
I need some girl who's equally as psychotic and maniacal about the Cure as I am...then we could screw while listening to PORNOGRAPHY.
I'm sorry...songs about death and sadness turn me on. Am I getting a little too awkward? Well, it's in my nature... :lol:
You make a good point, there are NO girls in my school who like them anywhere near as much, shame really, its all MCR and anything made in the last week. Hehe
Quote from: curedtc on October 29, 2007, 08:26:18
Quote from: Carnage Visor on September 17, 2007, 00:42:31
Here i am again, finding myself in an awkward situation...now i have to express how depressed i am...
Well, i've been thinking. and i think that women dont like men who like the cure. (Hey, I'm going to start capitalising again...kay?)
I mean, I'm one of two people in my school who likes The Cure. The other person is my school therapist. So he and I have long discussions about The Cure, Siouxsie, Bauhaus, and the likes. So far I haven't met any girls who like them as much as I do...and I think that my strange, almost "gay" obsession with the band members is off-putting to many girls. I think they think I'm gay. And I wouldn't blame them, how much I talk about Robert...
I need some girl who's equally as psychotic and maniacal about the Cure as I am...then we could screw while listening to PORNOGRAPHY.
I'm sorry...songs about death and sadness turn me on. Am I getting a little too awkward? Well, it's in my nature... :lol:
You make a good point, there are NO girls in my school who like them anywhere near as much, shame really, its all MCR and anything made in the last week. Hehe
I don't even know any guys that like The Cure, much less girls. I think maybe they only attract certain people.
Im 15 Friday, so i dont know if its an age thing or culture. I think some might see who they are from the new album! :smth023
Quote from: curedtc on October 29, 2007, 17:54:07
Im 15 Friday, so i dont know if its an age thing or culture. I think some might see who they are from the new album! :smth023
I think it's an age thing, I'm 15. Yeah, crazy..
Yeah, people my age have never heard of them, and i have mnaged to convert a few to knowing who they are, but i find it weird how they cant.
:(
I know..it's very strange.
everyone's just looking for what's new.
I used to be like that until i found theres more to life than whats now. i got hooked on the cure just before the albert hall show last year and since then its been my main music.
There are otherbands who started in the 80's i enjoy too, but the cure will be "new" when the album comes out ;)
Quote from: curedtc on October 29, 2007, 19:24:33
I used to be like that until i found theres more to life than whats now. i got hooked on the cure just before the albert hall show last year and since then its been my main music.
There are otherbands who started in the 80's i enjoy too, but the cure will be "new" when the album comes out ;)
Yeah, new to other people, lol..
But they are missing out, some know how much i like them from msn names or display pictures and my myspace etc, and i do get comments like "your obsessed" or soimething, but it doesnt matter, they should try a dose of cure. :smth023
fortunately my bf loves the Cure
he was listenin 2 them b4 i even get 2 know them
but he prefers U2 :(
U2 are good, but The Cure PWN them IMO. Hehe.
My wife hates The Cure... yes, it'so. Well, I cannot share with her my passion but isn't a problem: there is a time for my girl and a time for The Cure.
So for example, next 29 february, when I'll be at the concert in Rome, I'll forget completely my wife. :-D
Quote from: gioez on November 06, 2007, 11:38:23
So for example, next 29 february, when I'll be at the concert in Rome, I'll forget completely my wife. :-D
i think jeff should read this and learn. :-D
Quote from: japanesebaby on November 06, 2007, 12:32:57
Quote from: gioez on November 06, 2007, 11:38:23
So for example, next 29 february, when I'll be at the concert in Rome, I'll forget completely my wife. :-D
i think jeff should read this and learn. :-D
I'm sue Jeff knows everything there is.. :smth023 to learn.. marriage is like that.. it can ONLY survive TIME OUT.. TRUST ME!! ;)
been there, done it.. will I ever again..?? no. Why? I leave this open... :smth100
edit~ to be sure J does not forget his wife.. in that manner.. (forgive me father for I have sinned!!)... :oops:
Quote from: Cure on October 29, 2007, 20:06:28
fortunately my bf loves the Cure
he was listenin 2 them b4 i even get 2 know them
but he prefers U2 :(
Very cool your bf, eheh!! :smth023
Now I'm u2fan and curefan almost at the same way...but I've listened to U2 since I was a little girl, I grew up with their music and my love for them is inevitably deeper... :smth001
Quote from: Lady on November 08, 2007, 21:21:53
Quote from: Cure on October 29, 2007, 20:06:28
fortunately my bf loves the Cure
he was listenin 2 them b4 i even get 2 know them
but he prefers U2 :(
Very cool your bf, eheh!! :smth023
Now I'm u2fan and curefan almost at the same way...but I've listened to U2 since I was a little girl, I grew up with their music and my love for them is inevitably deeper... :smth001
i really hope my future husband will love cure and listen to cure as i do...
U2,,,is :smth023 :smth023.....
i hope U2 come to malaysia...and i will go to watch U2 concert with my bestfriend HUSNA...... :-D :-D
husna kite g tgk concert lagi okay.....huhuhu
I would take the Cure any day. Actually my passion for the band is something that I tell whomever I may be getting serious about. If they can't hack it; they can so themselves out of my life.
To me personally.. there is definate contrast, btw The Cure and U2.. I fell asleep at both U2 concerts here.... went with sisters who loved the band.. :smth015 :smth015 :smth015 :smth044 :smth086
but The Cure woke my almost-dead soul.... :smth060
Quote from: Meddy on November 09, 2007, 02:45:37
I would take the Cure any day. Actually my passion for the band is something that I tell whomever I may be getting serious about. If they can't hack it; they can so themselves out of my life.
cheers meddy!! :smth023
:smth020
My Cure passion is quite well-tolerated in my home...
I can't listen to anything I want all the time (I'm not going to expose my 9yr old son to Pornography or Faith, don't think he would handle that well), but when he's not around my husband gives me free rein...
He's not into The Cure like I am, but he says "Even though it's not my favorite kind of music at all, I make an exception for The Cure, because Robert Smith is obviously a genius".
:-D :smth020
Quote from: robiola on December 06, 2007, 00:00:34
because Robert Smith is obviously a genius".
:-D :smth020
That's so cool!
My friends are completely intolerable. But they like Pink Floydd (ugh) and the ones who don't just dislike music in general!
I need some real-life curefans, eh? :)
Hihi,
I may not complain. My husband has no problem with my Cure passion.
He's happy with a wife who is happy with a cd and a curegig, I don't need more.
My son is putting up the volume when he hears a cure song on television :-D
My family gives me all they can find about the cure.
And if they can't stand anymore I put a wireless headphone on :-D
my girlfriend hates the cure :( except trust and lullaby and close to me ;)
my girlfriend loves the cure almost as much as i do.
some of the best memories of my life have been with her and the cure, dancing to the lovecats, lying on my bed holding each other while listening to lovesong.
:]
well if my bf hates the cure,
then i guess i shall change bf :)
Quote from: Cure on May 06, 2009, 15:17:17
well if my bf hates the cure,
then i guess i shall change bf :)
LOL :-D
Well, my ex-girlfriend become a Cure fan after we broke up. She was listening to them in a moment of sadness. But when I came back to her & we come together again, she started to hate them in spite of neatly expressing of her past fellings in Robert's words. But its always the same... now I'M suffering accompanying with Cure music and words... :lol: :cry: